Saturday, 29 November 2025

Our Lady of Paris by Alamgir Hashmi



Introduction

The story follows Sohail Harouni, a Pakistani law graduate from Yale, and his American girlfriend, Helen, as they reunite in Paris during Christmas after months apart. Sohail, who has returned to his family’s wealthy business in Karachi, is uncertain about his future, while Helen, a Yale senior, is applying to medical schools. Their relationship faces a crossroads: will they build a life together in Pakistan, America, or elsewhere?  

 Sohail’s Family Dynamics  

- Sohail’s parents, Rafia (a sophisticated, former beauty from a cultured Lucknow family) and Amjad (a reserved but shrewd businessman), unexpectedly join them in Paris.  

- Rafia is domineering and subtly manipulative, while Amjad is more reflective, expressing admiration for American freedom but acknowledging his own entrenched life in Pakistan.  

- Sohail resents his mother’s intrusiveness but ultimately acquiesces to her presence, knowing Helen must eventually integrate into his family.  

 Parisian Romance and Tensions  

- Sohail and Helen stay in a borrowed apartment on Île Saint-Louis, relishing their reunion. Helen, who grew up dreaming of Paris, is enchanted by the city.  

- During a dinner with Sohail’s parents, Rafia probes Helen about her future, while Amjad muses on the constraints of his privileged but predetermined life.  

- The couple attends the ballet (Sleeping Beauty) with the Harounis on Christmas Eve. Helen feels out of place amid the opulence and overhears Rafia and Amjad discussing her, leaving her self-conscious.  

 Rafia’s Intervention  

- Rafia invites Helen to tea at the Hôtel George V, where she delivers a calculated speech:  

  - She praises Helen’s independence but warns that Sohail lacks ambition and would be unhappy in America, where he’d feel emasculated.  

  - She implies Helen would hate Pakistan, where superficiality and power games dominate.  

  - Though she claims to trust Helen’s judgment, her words are a thinly veiled plea for Helen to end the relationship.  

- Helen, though unsettled, remains gracious but noncommittal.  

 Escape to the Countryside  

- To escape the tension, Sohail and Helen rent a car and drive to the Loire Valley. Their interactions grow strained, with Sohail oscillating between affection and moodiness.  

- At a fair in Orléans, a trivial argument over candy escalates into emotional vulnerability, revealing Sohail’s fear of failing Helen.  

- They stay in a rundown inn in Beaugency, where Helen, tipsy and playful, tries to coax a kitten—a fleeting moment of lightness.  

 The Turning Point  

- Visiting the Château de Chenonceaux, Helen has an epiphany. Watching the river flow beneath the castle, she realizes their relationship cannot endure the weight of divergent futures.  

- She abruptly insists they return to Paris, cutting their trip short. Sohail, confused but compliant, follows her lead.  

- In the final scene, Helen watches Sohail navigate a hedge maze, her gaze distant. She hardens herself, symbolically letting go as she reflects on the transience of love and history.  

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Character Analysis in Our Lady of Paris  

 1. Sohail Harouni  

- A privileged Pakistani law graduate from Yale, torn between his family’s expectations and his love for Helen.  

- Intelligent but lacks ambition; relies on charm and wit to navigate life.  

- Deeply attached to his mother, Rafia, yet resents her control.  

- Gentle but Passive: His kindness is his defining trait, but it masks a reluctance to confront hard decisions (e.g., career, Helen’s future).  

- Cultural Duality: Enjoys American freedoms but feels the pull of Pakistani familial duty.  

- Emotional Dependence: Seeks validation from Helen and Rafia, unable to assert his own path.  

 2. Helen  

- A bright, ambitious American from a modest background, on the verge of medical school.  

- Idealistic but pragmatic; deeply in love with Sohail yet aware of their incompatibilities.  

- Innocence & Awakening: Initially starry-eyed about Paris and love, she matures through Rafia’s harsh truths.  

- Quiet Resilience: She endures Rafia’s scrutiny without confrontation but internally grapples with her future.  

- Self-Sacrificing Love: She considers Sohail’s happiness above her own, yet her epiphany at Chenonceaux reveals her limits.  

 3. Rafia Harouni  

- A former beauty from Lucknow, now a polished Karachi socialite.  

- Cultured, manipulative, and fiercely protective of her son’s place in Pakistani high society.  

- Calculating Charm: Uses wit and flattery to disarm Helen while subtly undermining her.  

- Nostalgia & Control: Clings to her fading glamour (evident in her portrait) and exerts control over Sohail’s life.  

- Worldly Cynicism: Believes love cannot transcend cultural and class divides.  

 4. Amjad Harouni  

- A successful but weary businessman, comfortable in his wealth but envious of American freedom.  

- Reserved, observant, and quietly astute.  

- Quiet Authority: Speaks sparingly but with weight (e.g., his musings on freedom during dinner).  

- Detached Affection: Shows care in small gestures (loaning Helen a scarf) but remains emotionally distant.  

- Contradictory Longing: Admires America’s individualism yet upholds Pakistani traditions.  


 Key Themes  

1. Cultural and Class Divide – Helen’s American idealism clashes with the Harounis’ entrenched Pakistani elitism.  

2. Parental Influence – Rafia’s manipulation underscores the pressure of familial expectations in shaping romantic futures.  

3. Love vs. Pragmatism – The couple’s passion is overshadowed by practicalities: career paths, national identity, and personal fulfillment.  

4. Freedom and Constraint – Amjad’s envy of American freedom contrasts with Sohail’s paralysis between two worlds.  


Conclusion  

The story captures a relationship at its breaking point, framed by the beauty and melancholy of Paris. Helen’s decision to return early signals her acceptance that their love, though profound, cannot bridge their divergent lives. The title, Our Lady of Paris (Notre Dame), echoes this theme—love as both sanctuary and fleeting illusion.



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Our Lady of Paris by Alamgir Hashmi

Introduction The story follows Sohail Harouni, a Pakistani law graduate from Yale, and his American girlfriend, Helen, as they reunite in Pa...